Why Orgasms Are So Spiritually Harmful

Sexual energy is a very powerful energy that is part of the human being in many ways. It is a creative energy, which can be observed by the obvious example of procreation, but it can also be used to transform oneself spiritually. Sexual energy is often mistaken for lustful feelings which occur in genitals and front torso, but it is actually a different thing.  Using sexual energies to transform oneself spiritually is done in the practice called alchemy (White Tantra), which is a sacred sex between a loving couple. Mixed sexual energy of man and woman is the prima materia of the old alchemists, the key ingredient of transforming the lead of the personality into the gold of the spirit, a process that takes place within the inner laboratory which is the human body.

Even if you don’t transmute the sexual energy within the practice of alchemy, but are just storing it by being chaste and are working on the first key for spiritual awakening (elimination of egos), you would see that the amount of your physical, emotional and mental strength has increased significantly. Your inner state would be much improved – you would be much more balanced, focused, anf perceptive. The sense of genuine happiness would occur more often; mental and psychic abilities would improve, your spiritual practices would get on a new level, your aura (which is also the sexual energy) would grow and offer more protection, and much more.

Now, with every orgasm (regardless of how it happens), the stored sexual energy is released outwards and lost. The result of that is strengthening of the egos, reviving of some of the egos you have eliminated, and general loss of the sexual energy. Even if you never worked on yourself spiritually in a manner of removing egos and practicing chastity, you may still feel the after-effects in terms of noticing low states within you and/or feeling a lack of energy.

However, if you have been working on yourself for a while and have been storing the energy, the difference would be very obvious. You would feel  bad, the mind would be scattered, like in a drunken state, your percpetion would decrease and there would be a feeling of being pulled down – a horrible state of being. It then takes some work on the egos to get back to a higher level again and regain what is lost. It is said that if the kundalini has started to rise due to the practice of alchemy and if the fall/orgasm happens, it will go back down for a certain degree.

You cannot progress spiritually and have orgasms, not in a true way. With each sexual fall your egos strengthen, your consciousness/essence weakens, and with regular orgasms you just stay at the ground level. To truly progress spiritually you have to eliminate your egos so that your consciousness that is trapped within them is freed. For true development the essence has to grow, develop, and inner transformation has to occur. All of this is lost with orgasms because lust is continuously fed and egos keep reviving each time it happens.

It can be very difficult to cut off the addiction to pleasures thatthe  egos of lust and orgasm bring. But if you try and work on yourself you will understand that the lust you feel is illusion, a distortion of reality, and when you replace it with consciousness you will get something much different than the illusory animalistic drives and desires.  The heavy energies of lust can be replaced with higher emotions, with something that is real, an energy that is light and beautiful to feel. Alternative is being a slave to insatiable desires, never getting to true knowledge and never developing above the average state of being.

Influence of pork

Pig is an animal with very low energies, and if you eat it you will have nightly pollutions (providing you do not have intentional orgasms; if you do then you will not have nightly pollution despite eating pork). It isn’t just pure pork that is causing that, but every food additive that is of pork origin. This is also something that you can verify if you work on yourself for a while, and if you then eat something that contains pork you will feel heavy lustful emotions in the front torso and genitals. It brings down your state of being and put consciousness in a dizzy state, depending on the amount that is eaten.

If the food you eat has only a small amount of pork based additives, like for example ice-cream, you don’t necessarily have to have the sexual fall that very night. But as you keep eating it the low energies will build up in you and after some days the nighty pollution will happen. It is said that it takes approximately 8 days for pork to get out of the system once you eat it.

Here  is the list of food additives that is of an animal origin, and hence potentially being of pork. It is a vegetarian list so not all E-numbers here are spiritually harmful because some are made of insects etc.

Many of vitamins B in food products can also be extracted from pork – these are vitamins B1, B2, B3, B5, B6, B12. Not long ago I found out that a type of food I ate every day for breakfast actually had pork based vitamin B in it. It’s best to get your portion of B vitamins from non-pork sources, like eggs, or ask a food manufacturer from where is it extracted. For more information on it see this link

Ham Sah exercise

If you are chaste and don’t have a partner with whom you can transmute the sexual energies in the practice of alchemy, but you are practicing other keys to awakening, then you could sublime the stored sexual energy with practice called Ham Sah. It is done like this:

Sit or lay down in a comfortable position, close your eyes, and relax your body. Then inhale very slowly through the nose while in the same time mentally elongating mantra Ham (“a” is pronounced like “a” from the word “are”) (Haaaaaaammmmm), and also imagining the white energy going from your testicles/ovaries up the spine, into the brain and to the third eye chakra. Then you exhale rapidly and in that rapid exhale you pronounce mantra Sah (“a” here too like in the word “are”), and in the same time imaging the whole of the sublimed energy (that is stretched up the spine and in the brain) descending into the heart. Then visualise that your heart radiates a glowing light. Do this exercise for as long as you feel comftorable. As with every other exercise, you shouldn’t strain your body to practice more than it feels comfortable.

It’s necessary to pull sexual energies out of the gonads and into the brain and then hearth. Otherwise, after a while, they will cause a nightly pollution. As one author puts it, “The glass that is full will inevitably spill”. This is related to sexual energies and not semen. Non-ejeculated semen is always naturally pulled upwards by the body and excess is discarded during urination. According to one author, such naturally pulled-up semen enriches the blood hormones and this in turn slows down the aging process. Sexual energy on the other hand is not naturally pulled up – it is required of us to do it with the practice of Ham Sah (or some other breathing exercises)

Due to this type of breathing where you very slowly inhale and quickly exhale, if you do this properly, you will notice that after each exhale your lungs won’t require immediate air intake as they normally do. Don’t be scared of that, it’s a normal thing that happens during such breathing exercise. This exercise is also used as a mean to achieve the highest form of meditation,  Nirvi Kalpa Samadhi.

Conclusion

Here I wrote what I learned about lust, sexual energy, and orgasms (in the context of spiritual development) from my own experience. Refraining from orgasms and transmuting sexual energy is an integral part of the path I’m writing about on this blog. Taking this path is definitely not easy, but it brings radical inner change. I understand that not many people are ready for it, but I invite you to reflect if you are. Conscious work on lust and refraining from orgasm is not the same as typical religious celibacy, because in the former one is consciously learning about lust and transforms it into consciousness. Many people think they couldn’t possibly do such a thing, without even giving it a proper try. One receives much spiritual help when embarking on this quest. Without this help we would probably fail. Thus asking for spiritual help is very important.

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40 thoughts on “Why Orgasms Are So Spiritually Harmful

  1. Several of your notions of spirituality are incorrect. First, you speak of the ego as if it is a demon, demonizing it…yet the ego is a construct, like a hand…in itself it is not evil. This duality causes schizophrenia in most people who claim to be spiritualists. Second you attest to know what true grace is…many people who are not married, such as Newton were alchemists…the Grace of a Creator cannot be known by a person…it can only be experienced through the mysteries. You seem to be trapped in your own transcendental ego, as I like to call it because you have not realized that the ego is not your enemy…that there is no enemy.

    1. Saul, when I speak of “egos” I’m referring to multiple inner state such as anger, lust, fear, pride etc. They are called egos because of their egocentric nature. To dissolve these lower energies is the basic teachings of all the great spiritual teachers, such as Buddha, Jesus, Rumi, Kabir, Krishna, Lao Tzu and many others.

      It is not a question of them being evil or not, but a question of reality and spiritual progress. When you start working on your psychology, you start to see who you really are (the consciousness) and you se what you are not (the subconscious states mentioned above). When you start seeing reality for what it is, you see that the these energies are like dirt on your hand, and not the hand itself. Amazing thing that starts happening when you start to dissolve them is that the particles of consciousness trapped in each of those energies are returning back to your “mother”-consciousness, which increases your sense of self and wakefulness – you see more and more what you really are. Therefore you become the very opposite of szicophrenic – more balanced, centered, more and more intelligent, loving, peaceful and compassionate human. You replace what you are not with what you are, continuously fortifying your true self. I’m talking from my own experience here, and know many others experience the same thing when doing this.

      I also never said that I know what true grace is. Grace is an ambiguous concept with many different meanings attached to it, so I very rarely, if ever, use this word. If you are referring to the state I described that comes from abstaining from orgasm, then that is something very different, and one would naturally need to experience it to know what it brings.

      1. Saul is incorrect and you are correct . The ego is not the true self but the projected image of self and schizophrenia /bipolar is simply to not be in touch with that invisible self beyond the ego . When one has discoverd the true consciousness beyond the image , you become someone and then you unite and are whole rather than split . When one attains true self , you realise that the world around us including our bodies and time is not the true self but a projection as all is sound made visible or a holograph . Therefore our inner world is the true world and must be set free . We cannot be free if lust/ sexual images / money / others praise are our masters . All this world must die to us and our self in it in order for us to find a new self – the United indivisible self that has no past present or future but simply is . These secrets have been hidden in the arcanum and the ark is our soul or light of consciousness – the eye or the “I” . This eye is so filled with true identity the images around do not own it . It is free . It is not a servant to this world but the most priceless someone because the secret no one is told is – you are priceless for being you , for being conscious . You are not your name or your location or your dob or the government, you are not taxes or your job , you are you because you are you – the one who sees- the consciousness . Find this and you find all and are owned by none .

        Signed
        The true illuminati
        Aka MONA lisa
        I AM

    2. I agree with both you and the author on many points. However duality exist because we are on this physical plane. There is existence and non-existence. Thought and no thought. I would ask, would you be careful of your language? Energy goes where attention flows. The authors ‘duality’ creates only an opinion and I still have a choice on how to interpret this message. Give us readers a little more credit here. Anyone who is reading this is on the path like you. So at some level we are all thinking similarly. I do value your insight. Language is mutable. We think millions of thoughts a day. Each person is that unique in how they see the world. Yes? And we are all Spiritualist. The etymology of the word Spirit is “of or pertaining breathe”. Don’t we all do that? Also as much as we like words we must balance on process/action. Movement.

      Sexual energy is the most powerful creation energy on the planet. Next to money. To create it we much [move] our bodies coupled with the breathe. Both can be used ask a tool for good or not. What value we assign to each energy is what dictates our actions. I really like your hand analogy. Also, keep in mind the hand must move to create. We are of the age of consciousness so now we information more easily available to answer our questions. The next step is how to take the information, be empowered and create something wonderful on this planet.

      More importantly these tools help us make more discernible choices so we can create things with better intent, if a person values that belief. Not everyone is there yet. Ego has it’s origins based on whomever decided to coin the word. I look at intent and the look at how the language can direct me in a way that helps me accomplish something positive.

      For this instance I am looking at the specific definition stated online. Ego: a person’s sense of [self]-esteem or [self]-importance. Considering all my thoughts come from my[self] I enjoy the idea of having a healthy self-esteem. I think most would agree all spiritual teachers needed a strong ego to hold their own ground when others with less of self-esteem would try [in vain] to attack them. I also believe that these teachers thought their message was [important] enough to share it. Ego is a label just describes a certain type of energy. What we do with that energy is where people begin to label it good ego, bad ego, right ego, wrong ego etc. From where they stand, they still have to use their own energy that from within [the self.]. Best of luck.

      1. Abby, not sure if I understood your post correctly. I’m just sharing my experience with sexual energy and how it had changed my life once I stepped on the path to free myself from the strongest ego of all, the one which creates pressure in a body and pushes people to have orgasms, and in this way perpetuates eternal slavery. Lust.

        I noticed that to progress with elimination of egos (low inner states such as anger, pride, envy etc.) one must not feed lust, because by feeding it they’ll just revive over and over.

        I understand that majority of people today are not ready for this path yet. But this post serves as information for those who are but do not know how to develop themselves.

      2. Great post. Although I believe this material plane is more negative than positive where more harm to all organic material is practiced than good. We upon physical death, must never be tricked to return to this 666 animal realm again. 666 being 6 electrons, 6 protons and 6 neutrons which is all organic carbon base which man is made of. Thus, this is the mark of the beast which we practice every day with the mark on the forehead which is your beliefs or thoughts following by your actions with you hands. No way around it we are all hurting one form of life every day by consuming meat or any other organic food. We must reduce our harm to fellow beings then never return again. True reduction of ego is reducing harm to fellow spirits trapped in flesh and other organic materials.

  2. Hi, there. Great article. i can personally attest for everything that you have said about the experience of Sexual transmutation. It certainly really is very amazing. Since i began transmuting my Ems Semminis I have noticed my ego has begun to slowly dissolve. I’m progressively feeling increasingly calm, centered and unfettered. One of my favorite benefits is that i don’t give a damn what anybody thinks of me. Yesterday i was at a festival in town and tried to invite friends, but nobody wanted to come out with me so i just went by myself. I ended up conversing with many different vendors, making connections and meeting new people.(I Never would have done this as a person who regularly wastes the Ems Seminis.) Also, I’m coming up with more ideas and bold ideas at that. i actually enjoy the process of thinking up new inventions and ways that technology can benefit humanity. Also, I’m not afraid to learn new things. Heck, i even began to study/teach myself electrical engineering and how circuit boards work, lol. I think i made my point so far.

    Life just seems so much more brighter and FUN 🙂

    I really love the amount of awareness that I have now too. I see things that were always there but I guess I’ve been blocking it out.

    I only seem to need a minimum amount of sleep a night. I eat very little. Yesterday i realized all i had was some juice and maybe a light snack, crazy!

    I do practice yoga with this as well. specifically the Breath of Fire(belly breathing to clear out the blood in 3 minutes.)

    Women are so much more beautiful. i appreciate something about every lady i encounter now, and it doesn’t have to be sexual. I can actually interact with them and hold conversations, and check this actually be interested in what they are saying, lol. Hehe this is funny, well maybe for me because I never used to do this, but I have the utmost confidence around women i find attractive now. I’m more bold in asking them out directly too. I don’t think i’LL EVER ORGASM AGAIN, MAYBE JUST TO RELEASE THE SEMEN TO HAVE A CHILD, BUT THAT WOULD BE IT.

    Around day 7 my voice started deepening and now on day 14 I have this beautiful deep and warm voice.

    These benefits just keep stacking up for me. Everyday i notice something else. i may start a small blog to document my journey for other young men out there.

    Transmutation of the sexual energy of semen is one of those rare gems that i never thought i would find, but hey it’s amazing. i do have a tendency to gab, sorry 🙂 it translates over into my typing, LMAO!

    Now, i hope you can answer this question for me please. I’ve noticed that ever since I’ve started transmuting my sexual energies which has been 2 weeks ago, that some of my friends seem to be staying away from me limiting time on the phone or not returning phone calls and emails. I don’t know if i have manifested that response or if it is a result of them sensing on a subconscious level that i am energetically different and they know they would not want to interact with that? Either way i’m stumped. what do you think could be the causal reason?

    BTW, i wouldn’t mind discussing this topic further ith you sometime, either through the phone or the email. If every man in the world was to preserve the Ems Semminis most likely all of the worlds problems would be solved and we’d be living as real live magicians on the biggest stage of existence 🙂

    1. David, I’m glad you tried this and see the benefits. The clarity and the improvment of the overall mental and emotional state is really remarkable. However, it gets much better when combined with the technique of elimination of subconscious states (egos). This is when the inteligence of the consciousness starts to seriously open up and increase. It’s interesting for example that Nikola Tesla, the famous scientist, have also been refraining from spilling sexual energy. There are probably many more famous great minds that existed (aside from spiritual seekers and masters) that realized the same thing.

      Regarding your question, there may be several reasons why that is happening. It can be quite common for people to lose interest when a person starts changing and being different than them, but that happens more when there is a change from subconscious to conscious behaviour. Majority likes to live in subconciosu states, and then when a person starts to wake up to greater inner and outer reality, he cannot anymore associates with them in the same subconscious way. However, real friendship is deeper and true friends remain that way despite of change of interests.

      Another reasons is like you said, they may unconsciously sense that you are rising energetically above their own level.

      Another reason may be that your thoughts about them distancing from you have manifested certain feelings which your friends picked up and are feeling some kind of repulsion towards you. As an experiemnt, try being as clear as possible internally from any emotional states when around them, and see how they will behave then.

      Regarding your last paragraph, feel free to contact me if you have more questions: highestquest@gmail.com

    2. Sex or x is more than the Union of Man and woman but underpins all that is in this earth of terra or terror as all is male/ female in order to create life here . This is not universally true beyond here . beings beyond this plane do not subscribe to our notions of gravity which is this +/- mode . They control matter . Matter doesn’t control them .
      All the sexual energy of this planet is cloning really not as we believe creating as all is transformed so there is no creating going on which is why its all deteriorating and new matter: life pushing forward regardless of the prior . Planet x is our home not an imaginary one . We are not free or above matter currently but once upon a time we were . How powerful we were and could be is hidden from Us. If it weren’t so then it wouldn’t be encoded we wouldn’t be told every day we are no one by obeying rules. The free don’t need a prison . If we pay tax and we haven’t left planet earth we aren’t free . If we haven’t become higher ascended beings we aren’t free. If we are afraid to speak out then we aren’t free. But it is our choice . The x energy of this planet is not beautiful but a terror .because we have forgotten there is more beyond these 7 dimensions we don’t realise this isn’t the true reality . I have given up sex because it leads to pain and having children in this world is more pain , perpetuating the cycle of misery and slavery. I am content like Mona Lisa looking upon all but being none for I AM. I have discovered ancient secrets and of the universe . We will never know what we can be if we do not know who we are .

      You are the most important being in the universe for were you not we couldn’t converse now . I am the most important . We are equal . We are a miracle . We are someone . The chance of you being here is impossible but here you are . All things are possible for I AM
      FEAR NOT I AM HERE. I was sent to comfort you in these hard times . I will never give up for I am . I believe in you .
      The true illuminati
      For the revelation
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    1. There is a lot of myths going on about possesions in context of spirituality. It’s often used as a tactic for fear mongering, especially when you add prefix “demonic” to it, and I’m sure it frightens those without much experience of spirituality. In reality, possesion happens when a person deliberately, consciously, and intently invites another spirit into their body, like what some mediums do. Breathing technique and visualisation I mentioned in the above post is not in any way related to inviting other spirits into your physical body. “Opening oneself to spiritual world” is very vague statement. Could you not say that every spiritual activity opens you up to spiritual world, like for example praying, meditating, working on chakas etc.? If we’d go by that logic, it would be dangerous for everyone to develop spiritually, and this is certainly not the case.

      1. I was referring to mark’s “playing with own’s breath and mind is an opening to the spiritual world and poses a threat of demonic possession” which is not the way I see it..

  3. That’s a very nice article!
    Topics about sexuality are very sensitive and definitely something difficult to be accurate using words.
    On the other hand experience through inner investigation on those matters can lead to a personal knowledge that can be more accurate than any text.

    There is so much confusion around because of the different terminology every philosophy uses that could make the intellect mind to blow up. Adding the confused perception of an average person this conversation may lead to nowhere.

    In case people do the same inner research an article like this could be like a published scientific research where scientist collaborate according their own results, trying to help practically towards evolution.

    Those days that confusion darks our way, i wish semi-travellers to be united and help each other practically.

  4. I’m sorry but i think this whole article is incorrect, not any of the ancient books advise anything against orgasming, or to eliminate the feeling of “pleasure” which you speak of as a whole, they only advise not to spill any energy outside the body, if the energy discharge does not happen how is there a mixing of energies within the bodies in the sexual act which allows two to become one? if both don’t orgasm it would be pretty much both keeping that energy to themselves, which is in a notion selfish and egotistic to advise not to release any of your energy ever in your partners body and vice versa them in yours a sexual act is mutual and the height of it should be mutual not kept for yourself.Peace

    1. “they only advise not to spill any energy outside the body” – because i cant edit the comment, just to clarify by this i meant seed(semen).

    2. Hi guy. The elimination of lust is spoken often in sacred texts, such as Dhammapada, Bhagavad Gita, Tao Te Ching, and many others. They often mention lust/sexual desire as being at the root of all suffering; at the root of all other animalistic states. This is a practical thing that every seeker can verify for themselves. Orgasm is closely related to lust, as it happens due to sexual organs being stimulated by it. No, not ejeculating is not selfish. Orgasms is the end goal of lust – that is what is selfish.

      1. One cannot know these things by reading texts no matter how lofty or inspired. One has to see it for oneself – that requires work that most do not want to do..

  5. Good article but this is not meant for the masses, it is too hard to accept what consumes them…people should arrive here through experience and contemplation. You become what you desire. Sacrifice of the self gloating or ashes to ashes.

  6. I agree with Guy above.. there is another way to sublimate the energy – to be in a Loving relationship. Then there is a fine balance that no longer needs energy exchanges.. Most human beings still need to find their sexual soulmates.. Have you found yours? The Q is the A!!

  7. Okay so i practice celibacy in the sense that i dont practice sexuality with other beings. I do however practice with myself at times when i feel i have too much energy and start to get insomnia from it…also if my hormones start to get riled up, i thought there was nothing wrong with releasing some of that energy when i am in solitude…the only thing is that i dont let my energy drop..as soon as i reach orgasim, i send the energy up and its a powerful force that moves up on its own. I feel it in my heart chakra and it activated my heart in that moment then i literally feel the energy fill my cranium…for example if i had a headache, its dissapated with this energy and then i try to cycle it behind me back to my heart although sometimes i think it remains in my third eye crown chakra area and remains. After this i feel tremendous peace and fall asleep and awaken very well rested. When i refrain from this practice thats when i start feeling frustration, aggitation, negative emotion, to much energy that i dont know what to do with and makes me feel restless..and when i finally do fall asleep, i awaken very tired…from my experience im not to certain if i can agree although im unc err rtain what to do now because i certainly want to return to the realms of heaven but i cant in the traditional sense..i feel if i dont take care of it myself i will find myself in a circumstance where it will happen with another…when i refrain completely ive found myself in dangerous situations where i was assulted its like due to me not taking care of that energy it attract people to react in strange ways towards me such as disrespecting my personal space like if it was magnatisim. But when i took care of the energy myself i was left alone…

    1. I never practiced celibacy on it’s own without also working on egos of lust and egos as a whole, so I don’t know what exactly you experience. However I do know that there are many people who store their sexual energy without doing any spiritual work, and they feel benefits from it. The thing is though that without working on egos (especially on lust), one will have wet dreams. If lust does not get it’s food during the day, it will certainly get it during the night, when a person is in subconscious state of mind and thus more vulnerable.

      The frustration, insomnia, aggitation, negative emotions etc. that you exeprience when refraining from orgasms are due to subconscious states (egos), usually trggered by unsatisfied lust. That’s why it’s recommended to also work on your egos when practicing chastity. The following three links lead to posts that describe what I mean with work on oneself:

      https://highestquest.wordpress.com/2011/08/26/awareness-of-the-present-moment/

      https://highestquest.wordpress.com/2011/09/07/self-observation-for-knoweldge-of-the-self/

      https://highestquest.wordpress.com/2012/02/13/1st-key-to-awakening-the-death-of-the-egos/

      The Ham Sah exercise from this post can also be good to try out and see if it helps.

      When energy is released during orgasms then that’s it, it’s already out and lost. The energy you feel in some of the chakras by pulling ti back in is probably related to some other energies of the body, which also have an effect on the chakras. The sense of peace you feel afterwards is due to temporary release of pressure that lust creates. Lust is unsatiable well, always looking for more, so that sense of contentment is very temporary.

      In regards to magnetism that you mentioned, I find that interesting. I once heard a feedback of some male practitioners of chastity and spiritual work, who said that they think that the more energy they store, the more attractive they become to females around them. There may be something to it, but it could also be that unfulfilled desire is griping them on subconscious level due to which they irradiate openes to mating. Such thing may even go completely unnoticed, especially if still not very apt with self-observation.

      If a person is completely sure he/she is not ready for this path, then I think it’s much better to find a husband/wife with whom one can have normal and regular sex, rather than engaging in masturbation.

  8. There is a big difference between orgasm for a man and orgasm for a woman. Most ancient texts and current research are only speaking about the male psycho-sexual experience, as is your current article, since you’re speaking from your own experience and you are male. However, there is new research and experience, now that females are more respected in society, where evidence supports female orgasms as energizing and similar to meditation through its effects on the female brain. Whereas orgasm often works/feels differently for males. Where it has been learned as a best practice for males to build up their energy by not orgasming, stopping at the precipice, it is being learned that the best practice for females to build up their energy is through orgasms (thus, this may be why female sex organs have so many more nerves than men and their ability for multiple orgasms).

    1. When woman experiences orgasm the energy is also lost (just like it’s lost when a man reaches orgasm). Even if some people may perceive themselves as energized after orgasm, I don’t think you can say it’s like that for entire female gender. For one I state this because I’ve read/heard feedback of women who tried out the Work and have described how they feel/are when they have wetdreams. Secondly, there is also a woman (Marnia Robinson) who explored both paths (that of orgasm and white tantra), and tied it in with a spiritual work. She explains in scientific terms her excperince with it (altough tantra without the 1st key is not recommended).

      1. So as a man are you not supposed to orgasm at all? Like not even a valley orgasm? I’ve been practicing and training my pc muscles so that when I am on the bring of ejaculation I can withhold it and still feel a pleasurably mini orgasm but not release my seed. I can continue to have sex without loss of an erection or vigor.. I’m trying to figure out the best way because I just want to attain enlightenment.

      2. Jon, the enlightment is attained by transforming our lower nature, by sacrificing things such as lust, anger, pride, and all other animalistic elements that we have within, so that the truly spiritual within us is freed. To attain enightment we need to create vessels (higher bodies) that will be able to contain our higher divine parts (which are currently outside of us). It’s a great struggle to fight lust, but compromises in the fight against it only lead backwards. It’s not just about not having orgasms, but also not giving in to lustful sensations and pleasures, because this too strengthens the ego od lust and steals our psychic energies. The highest journey is hard, and only a few are ready to get far enough, but I hope people will try and attain it.

    1. That’s due to the build up of energy in the sexual center, and often time due to lust too. When semen/fluid builds up and is not released, it is then absorbed by the body. But the sexual energy is not absorbed and needs to be transmuted/raised as described in the article (the Ham Sah practice), otherwise it will eventually cause a wet dream. Like one teacher have said, “A glass that is full will inevitably spill.” As mentioned in the article this technique works best when combined with the overall spiritual work, which entails the work on lust.

  9. Although I agree that sexual energy shouldn’t be freely released to anyone in any form, I really would have to disagree that any orgasm will spiritually lower you. I have experienced my most profound healing from sexual abuse and other traumas THROUGH orgasm, they allowed me to release pain and years of fear and confusion. Orgasm is sacred, sexual energy is powerful, and when used properly, the results and experiences can be incredible. The power of orgasm and sexuality shouldn’t, in my opinion, be repressed, it should be explore, celebrated, and opened (with the right people and in the right mindset).
    Orgasm shouldn’t be something to be demonised.. it is a beautiful thing.. the male orgasm brings life, and the female orgasm brings immense pleasure. Why suppress something so beautiful and natural?

      1. Yes brother! It’s not only useful, this is what we must be really doing. But as we grow up, we develop so many bad habits and egos( defects). We are carried by our lustful thoughts and behavior, we get Identified with them. And when that happens, we spill the potent energy that is within us. It’s very powerful because as we know it, it creates another physical body, but if transmuted and directed into the guidance of Divinity, it will create bodies within us. That’s the way to become what we’re really meant to be. The water is very important symbol into great religions. And they say almost the same thing, in there Esoteric teachings. It’s better to transmute that energy while annihilating every defects that we have within us. In that way we raise our level of being, we will become higher than merely as an intellectual animal, to become a fully developed human soul.

  10. What about the female orgasm? Giving a woman you care about a beautiful sublime experience like orgasm only brings us closer together

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